Books That Find You

I've been reading all my life and it's interesting to look back and realize that you don't choose some books, some books choose you.

Have you ever had that happen to you? A book that just speaks to your personal situation that you are going through, falls into your hands at just the right time.

This happened to me for the first time the summer when I was nine years old. I was already reading at a high school level and my grandmother found a box of books in her alley that someone had left when they had moved away. She drug the box into the garage and knowing how I inhaled books, told me to take whatever ones I wanted. They were adult books and I was enthralled by being able to go through the box and pick and choose the ones I wanted.

One of the books appealed to me more as it seemed to be a child's book. It was called, "The Diary of Anne Frank" and the cover showed a photo of a twelve year old girl. That was very interesting to me. I opened it up and began to read it.

I had already read, "When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit" so I was somewhat familiar with the story of a man named Hitler who wanted to kill Jews and made many people flee their country to save their lives. The story of Anne hiding in an attic and telling the story of her experience living with her family seemed romantic and exciting.

I eagerly read through it not realizing that I was reading a read diary of a real girl and not a work of fiction. I still didn't understand the difference.

The end of the book was abrupt and I turned the last page in confusion not understanding why it did not end with Anne and her family leaving the attic and getting on with real life again.

Then I found the back page which said that Anne and most of her family were captured and killed in a concentration camp. I was in total shock that this Anne I had been reading about who was so real to me was killed.

Suddenly, I understood the difference between a book of fiction and a biography and that real life did not always have happy endings.

I was very sad and the story of Anne in the attic has stayed with me all my life. I am so glad that I met Anne when I was a child and could read her diary with the innocence that she wrote it and did not read the book for the first time as an adult already understanding the reality of what had happened to her.

Diana's Nightmare - The Family

Does the world need another book about the dysfunctional British Royal Family? Apparently it does. Do I need to read another book about the dysfunctional British Royal Family? No, but I did and I truly don't regret it even though a lot of what is in this book has been tossed around and is basically regurgitated into a coherent thesis for why Princess Diana had such a hard time of it.

I can break it down for you:

1. She married a man who was in love with another woman and too old for her.

2. The woman her husband was in love with was in a marriage of convenience and fed information about her lover's wife to the newspapers

3. Her mother in law seems to not be very highly relational with anyone other than her late mother and sister.

4. Her father in law is.....well......lives to the beat of his own drum.

5. Her father has such a stiff upper lip that he could no way mother his children after his wife left him and denied his ex wife custody/a relationship with her own children.

6. Her mother committed adultery and left her children and never seemed to emotionally bond with them ever again.

7. Her older sister married the Queen's private secretary so of course could never side with Diana or show her support.

8. Her other sister never seemed to be in the picture at all.

9. Her brother left his wife when she was pregnant for a woman he loved before he married his wife and eventually left his wife for her.

That's just the main family, the book also discusses, friends, Prince Charles brothers and the infamous "Fergie."

I honestly don't think that Princess Diana was in the least bit mentally ill if you take a look at what she had to deal with in her life. Her parent's divorce was traumatic for her. She married too young and barely knew her husband. She then had to deal with the stress of being wife to the heir of the throne. If you look at the odd personalities of those close to her and the lack of emotional support she received from her family, anyone would have a difficult time. The fact that her two children have turned out as well as they have is to me a testimony that she was probably the most stable of anyone in her family.

This book is chock full of Royal information so if you haven't read a book on the Royal family and are interested in their personal quirks, I highly recommend it. It's very well written.

The Hunger Games Trailer

I found The Hunger Games trailer on youtube. Are you ready for this movie? It does look like it will be good!

Oprah - Kitty Kelley

If someone told you that Kitty Kelley was writing your biography would you be happy? Probably not, because even though Kitty's biographies make fun beach reads that we all secretly gobble down, they are always "unauthorized" and fearless when it comes to setting the record straight. While Kitty's books are usually a gossipy romp through a celebrities life, Oprah: A Biography
is more like a jet fuel induced rocket rushing to space.

Kitty focuses on interviews with Oprah's father and relatives all who have little to do with her current life and while they may be able to talk about her past life, they seem to lack the understanding of the woman she's become. Kitty races through Oprah quotes so fast that they are more like reading a list than having any context to the complicated and intelligent Oprah Winfrey. Oprah is funny. Sometimes her humorous quotes are taken out of context.

No matter what you think about Oprah, (and lets face it, she has sort of gone off the New Age, "I'm so rich, I don't know what to do with all this money" heebie jeebie cliff.) the book cannot truly tear her down off her pedestal. For those of us who grew up watching her, there is a sense of understanding that Oprah has always been a "work in progress" and the fact she loves to continue to learn and grow is one of her greatest assets. No one can deny that Oprah has earned her wealth, worked hard to improve her skills and dreamed and set goals for her life that most of us average people cannot or do not know how to do. The woman is extremely generous and her humanitarian works alone could probably be the subject of a book in itself. In the end, Oprah is always inspiring, always transcending stereotypes of race, gender and looks. She is always brilliant. She is always Oprah.

I hope that one day Oprah writes her own autobiography or someone writes a fair and balanced definitive tome on her life. She deserves it.

Quotable Book Quotes

"What I've learned from my philanthropic giving is that unless you can create sustainability, then it's a waste." - Oprah Winfrey, "Oprah" by Kitty Kelly

The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood

I first read The Handmaid's Tale cough, cough, years ago and it was the book that made me fall in love with the dystopian genre and that in itself was interesting to me because I don't read a lot of science fiction or fantasy and these books do border on those genres.

The Handmaid's Tale is set in a future theocratic/communistic society, (That's technically an oxymoron but it's the best way to describe the setting of the book.) and focuses on the life experiences of a handmaid adjusting to the new theocratic society. A Handmaid is a woman whose only role in society is to procreate for a sterile couple. It also documents the different roles that other women have been compartmentalized into and their frustrations living as nothing more than a symbol.

Oh the many ways we could tear this book apart in light of women's roles in society today.

I found this read through to be very depressing and it seemed more dark than I remember. Or maybe I'm just finding dystopian books more depressing than I used to find them. I loved The Hunger Games but I did find it rather depressing and tense as well. I have intentionally put off reading the 2nd and 3rd books even though I have them on my kindle.

The Hunger Games - The Movie

Apparently, The Hunger Games official trailers have been disabled on YouTube. Why, they would do this when it is a FREE form of advertisement is beyond me. So, since I was hungering, (pun sort of intended) for a bit of video to enliven up my blog, I found this fake video made by junior highers for a book report. From the looks of the video, this generation of young people are going to kick our current crop of Hollywood movers and shakers out of The Four Seasons.

So to get back from my little rant and digression, I was wondering if anyone knows if "The Hunger Games" movie that is coming out next month is based on just the first book of the trilogy or on all three books. I will actually be in a country where I can actually go to a theater and see it, so I need to know if I need to jump on reading the 2nd and 3rd books. I would guess from reading the first book, which pretty much reads like a movie treatment, that the movie will just be based on the first book. (Also think of the financial bonus of making a movie of each book!) I would like to read the books before seeing the movie so there will be no spoilers.

Thanks for any info on the movie!